TORONTO'S HUB FOR THE QUEER WRESTLING COMMUNITY
WHO WE ARE
WrestleFest Toronto is a community. We aren't a formal league, company, or organization. We're simply a group of members of the queer community who share a passion for wrestling and want to create fun, inclusive events for everyone.
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From sweaty open mats to our flagship July WrestleFest weekend, from casual socials to high-energy parties, our events are all about connection. Whether you’re brand new and curious, a lifelong mat rat, or just looking for a space where queer men can bond over a shared interest in all things wrestling, you’ll find your place here.
We strive to create a space where everyone is welcome—regardless of experience, skill level, orientation, or gender-identity. What matters most is showing up, having fun, and building friendships both on and off the mats.
Why get involved? Because it’s more than just wrestling. It’s about community, confidence, and creating a space where we can be ourselves while celebrating the sport we love. Whether you’re stepping on the mat, cheering from the sidelines, or meeting new friends at one of our socials, WrestleFest Toronto is your invitation to join in.
Come roll with us, sweat with us, and connect with a community that knows how to bring the fun.
NEW TO WRESTLING?
WE GOT YOU COVERED!
Our New to Wrestling is designed to help you feel confident whether you’re stepping onto the mats at an open mat, connecting with wrestlers online through forums like MeetFighters, or just curious about how things work.
Inside, you’ll find info on the common types of wrestling, practical tips on what to expect at events, and general guidance on how to meet wrestlers from online forums safely.
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It’s the perfect starting point for anyone looking to dive in, make connections, and enjoy everything WrestleFest Toronto has to offer.
Frequently asked questions
How can I meet other wrestlers?
At our events—most people come solo and leave with new friends.
Through online platforms like MeetFighters, where you can connect with local wrestlers, join forums, and discover events.
Partner organizations like Grapple Pit or Queer Boxing Club, who also host inclusive combat sports spaces.
How Does MeetFighters work?
MeetFighters is a global online platform where you can create a profile, connect with other wrestlers in your area, chat, post match reviews, and explore event listings. It’s free to use and has a strong queer wrestling presence. While its user-base is mainly gay, bi, and queer men, all are welcome to create an account. Many in our community use it as a way to connect either before meeting at events or to arrange private wrestling matches.
How should I ask someone to wrestle?
Whether at an in-person open mat event or online through a community forum such as MeetFighters, we recommend by starting with introducing yourself. Clearly outline your experience, boundaries/limitations, and any safe words ("tapping out" is typically standard, but we recommend having a verbal safe word as well).
If someone does not wish to wrestle, do not pressure them. Everyone has their own reasons for accepting or declining a match. If someone declines, simply move on and ask someone new.
What safety measures should I take before meeting someone for the first time?
Meeting online: Just like meeting through any other online forum, we reccomend a few general safety precautions before meeting someone through MeetFighters:
Meet in a public or semi-public place the first time
Share your plans with a friend if possible
Trust your instincts—if something feels off, it’s okay to walk away
Set boundaries clearly and respect those of your wrestling partner
*The WrestleFest Toronto organizing team does not sanction any private meetups or wrestling matches outside of our hosted events. When meeting someone privately, you are responsible for your own safety.
Meeting at a wrestling event:
WrestleFest Toronto organized wrestling events such as open mats, we strive to create a safe and inclusive space
Discuss limitations and rules with your wrestling partner before stepping onto the mats and respect the boundaries laid out by your partner
If you are uncomfortable, you can stop a match at any time
To stop a match, clearly "tap" your partner or verbally say "stop". This should be discussed with your partner before stepping onto the mat.
Meeting a social event:
Respect boundaries and consent at all times
If something feels off, walk away and report the situation to a member of the venue staff
Never leave food or drinks unattended
While the WrestleFest Toronto organizing team strives to make every event safe and inclusive, attendees are ultimately responsible for taking common safety measures and respecting the rules set out by the venues. Those who engage in unsafe behaviour may be removed from events without refund.